The idea of fundraising for an adoption can be a controversial topic. There are people who love it, people who hate it, and both groups are liable to give their opinion whether you want to hear it or not.
People who hate it argue that adopting is the same as giving birth and you don't see any pregnant woman out there fundraising for their impending delivery. Some people think that the idea of fundraising is in poor taste and that you shouldn't even be thinking about adopting if you can't afford it, and anyway you should just work for it you lazy bastard (okay that last part might be a bit off)
But the truth of the matter is that adoption is not the same as giving birth. And, aside from a few lucky individuals who have the means to pay for adoptions outright (I'm looking at you Brangelina), the average family does have to scrimp and save and apply for loans or grants, and fund raise, to make their adoption dreams come true.
Not having given birth myself I can't be sure, but I am fairly certain that the average pregnant woman doesn't have to walk into the delivery room with thousands of dollars in cash (new bills only please) to pass out to each person assisting in the birth. Likewise, the average pregnant woman doesn't have to pay for flights, and hotels, and travel expenses to the hospital. There are no immigration papers to file, fingerprints to be had (over, and over, and over), no translation fees, no courier fees, no agency, fees.
Adoption is just expensive. Stinking expensive.
I am a public school teacher, a profession not known for large salaries (I do it for the kids y'all...also, summer vacation). I also work a part time job, have picked up two different summer
teaching positions, have painted rooms, watched dogs, and picked up
people's mail when they are out of town. I am not afraid to work, and
work hard to make money. But all that still isn't enough. As such I have been, and will be fundraising for my adoption. Not because I want a free handout, not because I don't want to work hard, but because that's what I have to do to bring my son home.
Because I'm a mom. And there is nothing I wouldn't do for that little boy.